PLATTSBURGH — The 1999 film “Boys Don’t Cry” tells the story of a young adult who was born female but identifies as and wishes to live as a male.
It’s “a true story of an individual who faced transgender issues,” Amanda Bulris, executive director of the Champlain Valley Chapter of the National Alliance on Mental Illness NAMI), told a group gathered at Plattsburgh Public Library for a forum on transgender teens.
The event was part of the Brown Bag Series, an annual string of public discussions sponsored by Behavioral Health Services North (BHSN) and NAMI: Champlain Valley.
“All of our topics are really things that stigma has shut down, put into the darkness, and what we try to do is each month bring a little light to the subject,” Bonnie Black, director of Employee Assistance Services at BHSN, told event attendees.
The original plan was for a panel of individuals familiar with transgender issues to lead a discussion at the forum and answer questions on the topic.
However, Bulris said, the organizations couldn’t find anyone who was both available at the time and willing to share experiences with the public.
“One of the reasons that we had difficulty finding a panel to talk about the topic was the stigma surrounding it and people not willing to make a public appearance and say, “You know, I am a family member who has someone who is transgender,’” Bulris said.
So instead, she and Black showed part of the film, which was donated for the showing by Under One Roof Video Store, and followed it with a brief discussion that invited audience input.
The movie’s transgender character was perceived by his family as being a homosexual female rather than as the heterosexual male he believed he should be.
“That was his family, who knew that he had genetically been born a female, and so they identified him as being (homosexual) versus being transgender,” Bulris said.